Before you complain that “everybody gets a trophy”, read this

“The problem with these kids today is that everybody gets a trophy!” I’ve heard that gripe over and over again.  I heard it just last week in the locker room at the gym.  Last December, the University of Louisville Women’s Basketball coach went off on a highly publicized rant, complaining about the “everybody gets a … Continue reading Before you complain that “everybody gets a trophy”, read this

Gentleness is NOT weakness. Here’s what it really is, and how you can grow in it.

Ours is an era marked by aggressiveness, combativeness, and crudeness. Do you feel the pressure that comes from it?  The pressure to respond in kind.  The pressure to fight fire with fire. Do you feel like the idea of gentleness sounds weak, timid, and powerless? Don’t be fooled.  Gentleness is not weakness.  Gentleness is wisely … Continue reading Gentleness is NOT weakness. Here’s what it really is, and how you can grow in it.